Thursday, August 11, 2011 @ 4:50 AM
you can only say you're being subtle when he/she gets it
Ah. I suppose I should lament about the terrible state the world, or more like the society has become.
What happened to the times when guys were strong, direct even to the extent of being point-blank? Oh no here comes the era of emotionally sensitive teenage boys.
... Not that they're a bad thing, cause you know, like FINALLY they can empathise with us, the girls! Okay this is a very very bias stereotype, but it's true. Don't deny it.
You know, I use to think the notion of guys rejecting girls is really awkward, like what if the girl cries? Then you'll look like some pathetic guy who make girls cry. Or you'll just look like an awkward chicken flopping around cause you have absolutely no idea what or how to comfort her. (Cause hey you just broke her heart!)
Right now, after analysing many people's social life, I realise that it's kind of hard for a girl to reject a guy too.
Of course rejection doesn't have to come in the form of point blank rejection. It can be... just shown in everyday life. Like if he doesn't like her he would avoid or ignore or tell her off.
Now coming to the crux of everything.
Being subtle no longer works I think. Maybe it's just not getting through, or they're trying not to let it get through.
But it's kind of obvious. Can't understand how in the world did I not get it. (Or maybe I did subconsciously, but beside to stay ignorant. Cause ignorant is bliss ^^)
But hey my class is cool :D And nice. I mean some things don't need to be said, cause you can feel it in the air. Just like how people don't need to tell you directly how they don't like you, cause you can feel it.